For the future of the children before the age of 12, we must develop a good habit of the 5! Sohu –jiqingwuyuetian

For the future of the children before the age of 12, we must develop a good habit of the 5! Sohu maternal and child saying, habit formation character, character determines destiny." The power of habit is so powerful that it has a great influence on one’s life. Parents as children’s first teacher, to focus on cultivating children’s good habits in their daily lives, so that children benefit from life. What are the good habits of children before they are 12? Let’s look at it. 1: self determination the habit of some parents do not respect the wishes of the child, always love everything, instead of children to do all sorts of choices and decisions, they think this is good for the children, their children’s performance is love. Really love the child’s parents, will respect the child’s wishes and interests, to understand children’s ideas, to create conditions to help children dream into practice, encourage yourself, try to let the children make their own choices and decisions, but not all things are "acting on their behalf," children make children rely on their parents everywhere, no one independent. In fact, each child has a huge potential, the parent’s responsibility is to dig deep, and constantly improve the child’s potential, so that children can become a unique talent. 2: self thinking habit of many parents love love become the child’s study, "Xinhua Dictionary", "calculator for children". This kind of education for children, is a kind of great harm, it will make the child brain development is blocked, the reaction is too slow, even if there is no parents to read with their parents, they do not know how to learn. Really love the child’s parents, the education method inspired guide, abandon the spoon, pouring, pressing against the method of education, encourage children through observation, thinking their own knowledge and insights, and thus the formation of self learning ability. 3: self work habits in order not to let the children lose at the starting line, many parents will give children to various interest classes, classes, the children all the time occupied learning, in such a way as to deprive the children self arrange affairs opportunity, let the children like a puppet arrangement, manipulation. Really love the child’s parents, do not let the children become "only learning machine", but let the children know that in his life is not only in the study and examination, there are more rich and colorful content waiting for him to try. As parents, we should guide the children to learn to plan their own, learn to use limited time to improve efficiency, to achieve a multiplier effect. Parents should encourage their children to go out of the house, out of the classroom, make more friends, in order to cultivate children’s interpersonal skills, enhance their ability to do things. 4: Etiquette habits China is a state of ceremonies, etiquette is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation. But now many of the children because of their parents and older pet, grew up in the rules do not speak, do the family environment, they often self-centered, not polite, do not understand the pecking order, do not know what is the etiquette. For the sake of the future of the child, parents should cultivate children’s "etiquette" consciousness, teach相关的主题文章: